Help

I learned from an early age to be independent and not rely on anyone to help me. It took me getting to adulthood to start learning from others to accept help. I must say I have been blessed with a lot of people helping me over the last fifteen years in a lot of different …

“Everything is Going to Be Okay” Meets a Realist

"Everything is going to be okay." That is the attitude some people are able to exude. They either believe it for their self or they want you to believe it for yourself. I am what I and all the others like me call a "realist." A lot of people want to call us pessimists, but …

Suicide Dissected

I think when you are on the brink of death whatever form that should take, then you discover  things that you never realized before. Having made some attempts at suicide myself,  I have learned several  things. One of the most important things that I have learned is that suicide is a lonely, lonely way to …

The Smallest Things

Sometimes it is the little things people say or do that can brighten my day. Mostly, I am consistent with wearing business casual with some flair at my jobs. At the church, they really don't care what you wear unless it is a tank, holey pants, flip flops, or short skirts (I have tested this …